I get that sickening feeling in my stomach when people tell me that I’m torturing Charlie with. Charlie’s happy running in the street in front of cars. An autistic child grows up in a world comprised almost completely of neurotypical people, and they have to learn how to function within it. He did so based on principles developed by famed psychologist B.F. Skinner, found in his book, published in 1938, The Behavior of Organisms. Hi Keren, conversely, let’s accept that there have been lots of wrongs that have been performed in the name of aba but that we need to spend more time talking with open minds about what we want to achieve and how we are going to do that…. He now knows what stop means and over time with practice the skill will likely generalize. In the movie theater? If that’s abuse then call me the biggest abuser on earth because I’m so thrilled with all it’s done for him. I also say it as an autistic psychologist who taught research methods and data analysis at postgraduate level for two years at his alma mater. And if stimming is interrupted or attempted to be quieted in community settings are we then just trying to make them appear like a neurotypical person? discrimination in favor of able-bodied people. There’s no way I could have accomplished what Charlie’s therapists did on my own. 5 Social Stories for the Holidays. October 28, 2020. Posted Mar 19, 2018 Thank you for this post! Our BCBA is incredibly involved in Charlie’s therapy and is always looking for ways to tweak it for improvement. The biggest criticism about ABA therapy is ableism. It is also a data-driven type of therapy where every therapists should be literally taking data dozens of times per hour. Some of them are poorly run and the methods used are imprecise and borderline abusive. The methods used to help people with autism today have changed so much since Lovaas’ initial experiments – it’s unfair that they even bear the same name. I found it very disturbing, because even though the parents stated that their children were happy & thriving, those against it were belittling and supercilious. Therapists may give a consequence to Charlie by taking a toy away from him if he’s hitting them or screaming, but most parents do that with their children whether they’re autistic or not. How is Discrete Trial Training Used in ABA Therapy? It’s during these times that I have interrupted stimming and redirected the learner to whatever it is we’re working on. Where else may I get that type of information written in such a perfect I am a BCBA, and I think you nailed it – ABA when well executed can be a wonderful thing! ABA therapy has evolved tremendously through the years. Read More. Thank you for writing this all the best. It’s a big change for them. Is going to Europe for the third time…just seems to make things happen in a way I never could. This is not what it’s like nowadays. The research surrounding mental health has shown that when a person’s choices in life are weighted more towards doing things to gain extrinsic rewards their mental health suffers. Ne’eman, then a college student, was at the forefront of the pushback. However a well rounded account of criticism might also want to focus on the TYPES of special schools that sing about the weather every bloody morning, play skittles every Tuesday for four years and do the same mundane jigsaws over and over again. It’s along the lines of a personal preference/behavior like how you mentioned lining things up. Thanksgiving can be a hectic time. I love that you shared all of this in such a simple way and I am even happier that you have had such a positive experience with your son. Therapy is here to make his life easier by providing him with ways to communicate, and most importantly keeping him safe. You have positively reinforced him, which means u have increased his behavior getting dressed in the future. In early behaviorism, rewards and punishments were used equally. But, not all BCBAs, therapists, and therapy centers are great. An effective behavior specialist will continue to support their client, revisiting instruction when needed. She wanted to break his spirit…if I had been anywhere close to have known that, I would have never had anything to do with her. This was evil! We want him to be safe, independent, and to learn to communicate, to decrease his, and yes, frustration. Real-time education. Ditch the Bad Therapist (a mother’s horror story) (trigger warning) When I first started this particular blog series, I had grand dreams of sharing all sorts of valuable lessons about ABA therapy. ABA therapy is teaching him independence and self-care. I get that sickening feeling in my stomach when people tell me that I’m torturing Charlie with ABA and that Charlie learning to communicate and developing self-care skills isn’t important because what matters is that he’s happy. All you have to do is tell us your story in the forum below, and we’ll publish it on the web. A Bcba must use reinforcement procedures… punishment can only be used under specific circumstances. I really feel like you gave me a some clarity on this subject. ABA and horror stories. Collin Streetman, Chris Dester and Marc Weeden during a very enlightening debate about autism, special need children and relevant topics. Sadly too many bad BCBAs, or people claiming something to be ABA that is not truly ABA, do more harm than those of us dedicated to treating individuals and their unique needs do good. They can tell people to back off, to give something back, that they are IN PAIN!!! Feel free to message me if you want to talk about it farther, I’d be happy to chat with you. Essentially u provided him the motivation to learn to dress himself. We want him to be safe, independent, and to learn to communicate, to decrease his, and yes, our frustration. Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) bzw. I think a bit of context is necessary here. I wouldn’t do ABA therapy that uses punishment. On her blog, she shares the ups and downs of raising a severely autistic child while being on the autism spectrum herself. We want to fade away the less functional and dangerous behaviors, like playing with the cats’ litter box, swallowing rocks, and running in the street, to give him a better shot at life. ABA and horror stories. No facility (or person) that condones or excuses torture like that at the Judge Rotenberg Center is safe for your child to be near. If you’re going to consider ABA, please, PLEASE ask these questions. Though less and less common, that may explain some of why you sometimes hear horror stories about ABA. My wife and I are so impressed! You are a wonderful mom to your boys. Point being, stimming during times and in environments that impede one’s ability to learn, socialize, and/or perform a functional task is something that needs to be looked at closely. Though this is becoming less common, it may explain the more current ABA horror stories you read on the internet. I want to do the best by and for my son. Charlie is perfectly happy playing in the cat’s litter box. Watch the whole thing. I walked in the child’s shoes. As an autistic adult, I see both sides of the argument but overall I’m in favor of ABA therapy. No advice, just stories. The holiday season and its social stories often change everything for your child and family. There was no definition given of what ABA actually is, and nor was there a description of what was being done in any intervention being given to autistic people taking part in the ‘study’ – this makes it impossible to differentiate between ABA, per the definition given by the BACB, and anything being ffered under the name of ABA but not fitting the definition. I will use vocal stereotypy (i.e., non-contextual utterances that vary from snorting and grunting, to repetitive phrases unrelated to the present situation) and hand flapping as examples. Part of the misconception about ABA comes from the fact that there are bad ABA centers, BCBAs, and therapists. What’s advertised as ABA therapy may not actually be real ABA therapy. I’m a parents and I’m studying the Masters in ABA. Beautiful kid of whom I’m very proud. ABA Insight was so amazing and have changed my sons life. It may be unpleasant, but then again so is time out (for any child). But I could not do ABA with my son, not even the “look me in the eye” or “desk ready” beginning. Even with that, he was echolalic to grade 4. This article is written with loved ones in mind, but autistic … Charlie’s happy banging his head on the wall. There’s no way I could have accomplished what Charlie’s therapists did for him, on my own. We started at 18 months and continued until he was 3 and he is currently 9 and THRIVING. I’m a Behaviour Analyst. ABA Therapy: Applied Behavioral Analysis (recommended treatment for children with autism) When I first started this particular blog series, I had grand dreams of sharing all sorts of valuable lessons about ABA therapy. I wouldn’t do ABA therapy if our BCBA wasn’t on top of things and open-minded. Sorry, I feel like I’m talking in circles here. Functional Communication and Autistic Children. – Have you lobbied the BACB to get more stringent ethical guidelines so that children are protected from harmful practices like those currently in use at the Judge Rotenberg Center? Thank you! Results indicated that with 40 hours of ABA therapy a week for several years 90% of participants substantially improved, some even to normal intellectual functioning compared to the control group. I found your article very insightful and well-balanced and close to the conclusion I had come to already. I lay the clothes out the right way round and he puts them on. Autonomy, the Critical Journal of Interdisciplinary Autism Studies, 1(1). She claims to be a doctoral student but both schools I’ve seen listed for her are unaccredited diploma mills which I assume she chose because they would also her to claim “doctoral research” for poorly-conducted studies supporting her own biases and agenda without the right or oversight of a real college. Because you don’t like who she/he is? Other weeks it might be a teaspoon of Nutella, or a cookie. PRT (Pivotal Response Training) – A play based and child initiated approach. I was at loss before ABA therapy came into our life. Therapists use positive reinforcement to reward wanted behaviors. Think about it – why do you discipline your child? That data collection is used to track what’s working and what’s not. So there is that. How the ABA Industry Endorses the Use of Electric Shock Devices on Autistics: http://autisticbride.co.uk/2019/05/24/how-the-aba-industry-supports-the-use-of-electric-shock-devices-on-autistics/. You want to fade the less functional behaviors away to give them a better shot in life. If it doesn’t, fine. As a result, social stories can be helpful in addressing both positive behaviors and problematic behaviors. Many of the vocal activists once received ABA, and they reject both the therapy’s methods and its goals. It is a warm washcloth on your weary face, a safe haven for your scariest feelings, a place to swim in the ocean of you while effectively sipping chicken soup for the soul. Under the same assumptions, I ask the same question in regards to hand flapping. She stayed. But, not all, On the flip side, there is a part of me that sees how, ABA therapy has been a huge help for Charlie, and for us. If not, will you do so in the future? ABA also applies these laws to help reduce behaviors that may interfere with learning or behaviors that may harmful. I hope at least that this article encourages more and improved research on related topics. look out for such information. I think this misconception comes from the fact that traditional ABA like it was done decades ago was very strict and followed a simple principle: do this and you’ll get that. And you’ve walked how many miles in these parents’ shoes? Thank you for this! Thousands of British children have done this for many years, I chose the two examples as they resonate with the life stage we are currently at. It's not clickbait, it's true. Make of it what you will. ABA therapy is completely customizable to the child’s needs. This is because the reward satisfies briefly but it is fleeting happiness and it is not self full-filling, Some people might also develop problems with addiction too, because they feel they have to constantly reward themselves. How is IQ Testing Handled When Working with Patients with ASD; How is Naturalistic Teaching Used in ABA? The idea is that while it may be ok at this point in time, it may cause the autistic person trouble later in life. In many settings, I can see how this would be a big hurdle for others, such as focus in a classroom. Stella’s family first contacted Instructional ABA Consultants (IABA) because she was not successful in traditional speech therapy and they could not communicate with her. I’m all for listening to people and moving with the times but there is so much aggression from the haters directed towards anyone who views it positively. Read More. I wish you good luck at any rate. ABA is not “one size fits all” and a good BCBA (Board Certified Behavior Analyst) will work hard to develop the best program for a child. There’s a story out there, look up Bring Chris Home. This is an important decision that will hopefully change your child’s life for the better. My son is currently learning his life skills such as getting himself dressed. Hi there, it was interesting to read your thoughts on ABA therapy. BACB Ethical Guidelines for BCBAs: https://www.bacb.com/wp-content/uploads/BACB-Compliance-Code-english_190318.pdf Thank you for your comment! A sad day indeed. The environment is natural and the therapists make the children feel safe and comfortabe. CONSIDERING INTENSIVE BEHAVIORAL THERAPY FOR THEIR CHILD WITH AUTISM Part II Courtesy of Virgynia King and Bob King at GraphicTruth on Reddit, send a private message. The cost of ABA can vary, based on your child’s therapy needs, the type of ABA program you choose, and who provides the therapy. THIS IS ABA. If it takes giving him a cookie to make him stop these dangerous behaviors and learn self-care, as well as communication, then I’m okay with it. I spend too much time getting sucked into click-hole articles about the controversy surrounding ABA, but this is the first time I’m replying or engaging with anyone (on the internet) in regards to the topic. ABA ist auf den Prozess einer Verhaltensänderung i… If you have not in the past, will you begin now? Anyway, I’m delighted to hear you and your son are doing well. Found your blog on Instagram & your link popped out at me! There is no punishment if he can’t do it, but if he does, he gets whatever reward he’s into at the time. To my horror, I realized she was full force ABA, the punishing kind. If you’ve made it through this jumble of thoughts (there’s more I want to blab about but I worry I’m not articulating myself well enough as it is, haha) thank you for indulging me. They may be bullied for being different or won’t be able to fit in and make friends. It looks at helping a child to learn important skills. Trying to reduce stimming that causes no harm to the individual doing the stimming has always raised ethical concerns for me. Let’s go back to the example of a social story about sharing toys. Not all BCBAs, therapists, and therapy centers are great. If an ABA center doesn’t run this way then you should likely look elsewhere for therapy. Where possibly intrinsic reinforcement is used (if it’s there then you use it).. for some though we don’t always have that luxury. I’ve only met a handful of autistic people who share my views so it’s always nice to hear I’m not alone. This is something difficult for a lot of children on the spectrum. Dr. O. Ivar Lovaas designed the first implementations of ABA to help autistic people. Why is ABA the gold standard? You can help someone without changing who they are. Some people say they or their children were abused. Thank you for another informative web site. Once he falls into a routine, things should get easier. There are no punishments. That data collection is used to track what’s working and what’s not. 25 Best Autism Charities in the US. But, not all BCBAs, therapists, and therapy centers are great. Think for a moment how exhausted you, a grown adult, are after 40 hours of work in a week and you will begin to understand why we get so concerned about putting a three-year-old child through such a grueling schedule. Among other things they’ve taught him to communicate with his iPad, brush his teeth, and use the bathroom. As someone who wants the best for your loved one, how can you tell the difference between a potential success story and horror story? We need to promote intrinsic motivation to help him later in life. I was at a loss before ABA therapy came into our life. I don’t think we, autistic people, should have to change to fit in with neurotypical people, but I also want Charlie to have all the opportunity he can possibly have to learn, and maybe that does mean preventing him from stimming in certain situations. Keep your child safe. Read More. But as you mentioned, stimming can be disruptive to those around the individual. I want what is best for my child but I feel blind when in comes to choosing the right therapist and such a long process that I tell myself , what if I don’t like them and I have to start over with another place? The children that I see are hi-5ing me (through intrinsic reinforcement) as I walk through the door. This therapy that I see day in and day out prevents children from having more teeth removed because they now feel ok about teeth brushing and accessing the dentist, allows a child to feel ok about having a medical assessment without heightened anxiety and gut wrenching parental or hospital staff restraint. September 22, 2020. The methods used to deliver ABA with autistics has changed tremendously since Lovaas’ initial experiment. When I went online to ask for recommendations and find more information, I came across even more horror stories. I couldn’t agree more with your comment. ABA Therapy is not abusive nor is it ablesit, High-functioning autism: The weight of an invisible disability, [Autism] If you never call me mommy, I will still love you just as much, https://www.bacb.com/wp-content/uploads/BACB-Compliance-Code-english_190318.pdf, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ko-ip3MImik, http://autisticbride.co.uk/2019/05/24/how-the-aba-industry-supports-the-use-of-electric-shock-devices-on-autistics/. About Me. I find it so frustrating and upsetting that some people ‘blanket policy ABA as abusive’. I’d like to share with you my personal views on ABA therapy. I am a BCaBA and the misconceptions of ABA therapy makes me really sad because it can be such a life changer for so many kids (even children who don’t have ASD) I have personally made huge impacts on children’s lives for the better. . I can’t emphasize this enough, if you’re looking to start ABA therapy for your child, shop around! I have a more mitigated view on the matter than the many vocal opponents out there, and I think being autistic and having a non-verbal autistic child gives me a good perspective on the subject, one that my neurotypical husband shares. The normalisation agenda and the psycho-emotional disablement of autistic people. ABA can be intimidating at first. The goal is to help the child continually experience success with their learned skill, in different settings and as they grow. Could you give me the references of the most important and recent research article son that subject if you can? Sat on the periphery with no way of navigating the complex dynamic of social interaction. Cooking, cleaning, travelling, seeing loved ones, and the change in routine can get to the best of us. In regards to others accepting these behaviors because the person is neurodiverse…I mean I think our culture/society is becoming more aware of neurodiversity and how it presents itself, but the reality is that talking to oneself, rocking back and forth, flapping ones hands will continue to draw people’s attention; these behaviors can cause disruptions and severely limit the opportunities an individual has. There’s a vocal community of autistics out there who like to shout ableism (discrimination in favor of neurotypical people) whenever they get the chance. If we have a concern about anything, she’s available to discuss and adjust Charlie’s therapy plan. In my oppinnion, if you choose the right clinic, where ABA therapy is well executed, it can be really succesful! For your child’s safety, run.) Will you encourage fellow BCBAs to do so? No ethical guidelines that permit torture are stringent enough to keep your child safe. While I understand some of the concerns with ABA therapy, in my opinion, when done well, administered by caring people who are open to criticism and who keep a child’s best interest in mind, ABA is the best therapy for children on the autism spectrum. I don’t remember reading about a control group of any sort. It’s making mine easier too. How is Pivotal Response Treatment® (PRT) Used in ABA? ABA and horror stories. My Therapist Shared My Secrets, and Other Horror Stories When therapists can't keep their patients' private information to themselves. It’s important that parents choose an ABA center that aligns with their values, a place where therapists and BCBAs will listen to them when they have concerns or don’t feel comfortable with the way a specific skill is being taught. Born in France, she now lives in Austin, Texas with her husband and two sons, Charlie (7) and Jude (5). The ABA therapy that I see delivered, focus’ on fun and learning through play. 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